mlk253
mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

Does anyone else feel like there relationship lost its spark after having a baby? Just feel like my other half is bored of me 😭

02.11.2016
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mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@winterbaby95, wow that's amazing that she's crawling so early!! Im lucky that Maiah will sit and play while I do some things as long as she's in the same room as me but if I leave she screams the house down so that's hard! Xx

04.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@mlk252 Yes! I can rarely get anything done as it is! Maya is on the go all the time! she started crawling at 5 months (commando crawl) so couldnt put her on the floor to play while I did something in the same room...like sort out washing...cleaning etc..and she was proper crawling at 6 months....and was also pulling herself to stand! it was crazy! She has never quite been the baby to sit in a chair etc for more than about 20 mins....so have to get her out and put her on the floor again πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ appreciate the help I get from my mum...but she does have her own life haha...so isn't with me everyday all day! Xxx

03.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@winterbaby95, that's so true! It's very hard to keep on top of looking after a baby cleaning the house cooking and keeping the relationship up as well xx

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@mlk252 Hehe...its funny how you only think about the nappy changing...waking up at night etc when pregnant:) No one tells you how it's going to effect your relationship with your partner overall! But it's just about working with the time you have :) Obviously making some time for each other :) even if it's just a 15 min chat/watching TV before bed xxx

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mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@sara-lou, that's exactly how I feel but guess this is what happens when we have our little bundle of joy xx

03.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@winterbaby95, gosh I bet that's tough! I really do find it hard but always keep happy because I have my little girl ❀️ xxx

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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама Π΄Π²ΠΎΠΈΡ… (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚, 11 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

That's our issue. By the time it gets to the evening when he wants to have some 'us time' I'm shattered & just wanna go to bed lol. So I try and make an effort. We both fall flat with the romance side of things sometimes lol.

02.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

@mlk252 Yeah hun....with being parents it's hard to find time to relax and connect with each other :) before my little girl came :) I had all the time in the world to relax and do stuff together as a couple :) because we don't live together and only see each other on the weekends....its really tough...especially as my daughter is awake at 6:30am :) and awake basically all day and then in bed between 7-8pm...but she also still wakes a few times :) I either fall asleep on the air bed (give my daughter my bed) while we are watching a movie or I am up and down feeding Maya and tend to fall asleep feeding her too xxxx I think the adjustment is tough! but you do get there! xxx

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mlk252
mlk253·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

I'm glad it's not just us and it seems to be normal! Was getting so worried and upset about it! So hard because he works a lot and he's tired and moody when he gets home xx @sara-lou @winterbaby95 @clarebear83 @chesscalouise2

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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама Π΄Π²ΠΎΠΈΡ… (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚, 11 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

Yeh I think it's quite common. You both get caught up with parenthood & have to adjust to less time together. We started having a date night once a month. Going out for dinner or cinema/ drinks. I also got a few nice things to wear to spice up that side of things lol. You just have to remind each other your a couple now & then & not just parents!

02.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама Π΄ΠΎΡ‡ΠΊΠΈ (9 Π»Π΅Ρ‚)

Yes :) but you get it back again! xx

02.11.2016 Нравится ΠžΡ‚Π²Π΅Ρ‚ΠΈΡ‚ΡŒ
clarebear83
clare·Мама Ρ‚Ρ€ΠΎΠΈΡ… Π΄Π΅Ρ‚Π΅ΠΉ

Yes I found that with my little girl and while I was pregnant with my most recent!

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chesscal

snap!

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