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Ladies not baby related, but I need your most HONEST and BRUTAL opinions please!! So my fiancé has a track record off this but it's been great for about a year I always said one more fuck up and we're done! We went out on Monday night with my brother his gf (Rachel) and her friends I know his girlfriend and a few of he friends, well as we're introduced to Emma (one of Rachel's work friends) she pulls rach to the side and says I know Mike (my fiancé) he's been messaging me! Rach told my brother and my brother kept it to himself for about ten mins before exploding!! Now I know Mike knew Emma because he's friends with her brother! A few weeks ago we were out and I seen him chatting to her abit too close for my liking but he said he was just asking about her family ect.. after I found out everyone was talking to me behind my back I confronted mike and then Emma she told me that he had said a few weeks ago when I seen them that he was like if I wasn't with Beth he'd have her and stuff like that and that he kept on fb messaging her asking her to meet for a drink ect! He has denied it all but I don't know what to believe as she is like the town slag been told by most people but he's my fiancé but has a past Doing this! There is no actual evidence but I went on to his messenger and at the top when you click on search she's there along with me and a few other people and on recent searches was his ex girlfriend who we have had issues with. I don't know what to do I know he loves me but I must not be enough right? It's like he's craving attention has done all the way through :/ I love him to pieces but I've never been so humiliated in my life outside the club I told him it was over I was so angry he's shoved money down my dress told me to fuck off and left me a few miles from home all taxis were booked and it was raining I was crying my eyes out I had to walk back by myself luckily my brother met me half way. What do I do? 😭😡
02.11.2016

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taralou
taralou
And iv also been in these situations myself... xx
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taralou
taralou
Personally.... I could get over the fact him chatting to women.... (id look at myself and see what I was doing wrong or how I treat him... please or not please him) but the fact he put money down your dress like that told u to F off and actually left you to get home alone would bother me more to be honest.... and that would make me question whether I should be with a man or not.... not that hes chatting up women... not that I condone that behaviour but look at the bigger picture xx
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
Yeah that's what I want I don't want to be without him but I don't want to be walked all over like I told her first I'm not having a go I've been 18 young and single before we all do silly stuff but I need to know she was trying to show me but I couldn't see anything properly as her phone was all cracked and she said her internet wasn't loading which it looked like it wasn't I just don't want to seem like a desperate fool messaging her but I need some proof for piece of mind I am so petrified of the answer and I have no idea why 😕 @natzie86
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natzie86
natzie86
That's fair enough, if she's nothing to hide then she should have the messages. If it was me for my piece of mind I'd ask her for a screen shot of the messages and any other proof she may have the n you know the decision that was made was made with all the facts. Just bare in mind though that should he be innocent this time yours and his reactions speak volumes and you clearly don't 100% trust him. If you don't have trust and honesty in a relationship then in my opinion you don't have a relationship
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
@chesscalouise2, do you think I should message her and ask? @natzie86 thank you I think I know I need to leave him it's just hard for me to do without actually seeing it with my own eyes I think that's why I'm struggling x
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natzie86
natzie86
There was no messages which suggests to me that he's guilty of saying something that he shouldn't. If you keep taking him back after these situations he's putting you in he will keep treating you like shit. You are better off without him. Trust me I've been in this situation, it's not nice and yes you do love him but this bloke clearly doesn't have any respect for you or he wouldn't keep doing this to you. Don't let him beat you down emotionally so you accept this relationship and his behaviours you deserve a one woman man not a player
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chesscal
chesscal
yeah she should have the messages the show you @beadyeyes93 x
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
Xx
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
But there was in previous situations but I wanted to work through it for the boys sake @mother_of_humans @chesscalouise2
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
Yea, see there was no messages when I looked so no proof that's why I'm finding it difficult to come to some sort of action @natzie86 x
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chesscal
chesscal
@beadyeyes93, have you seen any messages for him to her or him too other women? xx
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natzie86
natzie86
She could be but if she was lying why did he respond like that? If he was innocent he'd of showed you messages and wouldn't of left you like that.
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beadyeyes93
beadyeyes93
But would you say she could be lying? As I don't know her at all, thank you though @natzie86 x
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natzie86
natzie86
Bluntly, get rid. A bloke that's chatting to other women in that context behind your back then leaves you in that state doesn't deserve you. You can do loads better.
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