Am I overreacting my boyfriend gets on me for putting our business out on social media, but when he…

don't cry he sounds immature..never let someone control your emotions..

@sherrynygirl he's not controlling my emotions I'm 9 months pregnant and just tired and very emotional I just don't tell him honestly. He thinks everything is so peachy with me and I want it to remain that way.

you have to be honest about your emotions. the more you pretend like everything is ok, the more it'll build up inside and when those flood gates open it'll be disastrous. I know from experience. I did that with my husband a lot with our first son. the consequences nearly broke us up all together. communication especially about what's bothering you and how you honestly feel is key to any relationship especially one with a SO.

@rosiel49 see I tried in the beginning but now he's said I complain to much and worry too much about stuff. He doesn't understand that growing up in was taking care of my self and my two little sisters. I'm used to the disappointment and shit like that.

he sounds like he's either in denial or he has some growing up to do of his own. have you thought of maybe some couples counseling? I know some men won't go, my husband refused for a long time, but it's a safe area with someone with an unbiased opinion to help you both say and get across what you're feeling and need. mentally and emotionally it's not healthy for you to have to keep it all inside and pretend it's all ok. I was so depressed the first year I did that with my SO. I didn't want to sleep or eat or do anything, and having to smile and keep it to myself was exhausting especially while taking care if a baby. you gotta do what's right for you hun :/ it sucks sometimes but you have to and if he can't understand then maybe you need outside help. like a family member (if you're not comfortable with counseling)

@rosiel49 I'm honestly more comfortable with a counselor than a family member. I don't trust anyone in my family but my own father. My therapist was suggesting family counseling for me and him I told her I would talk to him about it.

it's a great option hun. and I understand not trusting family, I'm the same exact way that's why I pushed the counseling with my husband. once he gave it a shot it worked wonders and now communication is a lit more open. I hope the same happens for you! you deserve some stress free happiness without the fighting. I know how bad it can get. good luck hun! if you need someone to talk to in the matter feel free to message me

@rosiel49 thank you and I surely will if I need to talk.