vent: found out today my MIL bought my baby her baby's first Christmas ornaments! I was beyond hurt and I'm mad. that's…

But he still sides with them. Smh asking you to pretend

@princesslina, he was like " she wants to be like our Mimi was..." my response " well I had no idea bc when asked if yall had any traditions nobody said anything and I'm not a damn mind reader." told him they need to learn to communicate better. I was pissed. that should show him right their they don't care and they will do whatever they want

Lol so he's like yeah you didn't know we do that? Uh NO!!!! And after 6 years? I'd be livid.

@princesslina, LMAO yes!! I had even asked my husband forever ago and he said they didn't have anything. but that was before we had kasyn. I told him I'm not a mind reader but not the first one lol

Lmaoooo damn so they didn't even tell you that's a thing in their family??? Wowww now I really understand why you're mad.

@princesslina, but they couldn't mention any traditions in past 6 yrs. hopefully he does!

Ohhh tradition. He's torn hopefully he opens his eyes!!

@princesslina, he is playing both sides as always. he wants is to get along but that will never happen. apparently his grandparents bought ornaments for them every year. which is fine but not the first. that's mine to do errrrr

Wtf so he sided with his mom!?

@princesslina, he finally told me what was said... he sent her a text and idk how he worded it but told her about the buying first stuff and apparently she responded by telling him she was done with him. something tells me this wasn't the first time. he told me you can only push away people for so long.. so I'm being blamed as usual. I've never told him he couldn't go to his parents house. I just wasn't going. told him to divorce me and go to his family. they won't like anyone he is or was with anyway.

oh and he said we could have just pretended they bought the first...

@princesslina, yeah I didn't ask any more and I won't. I didn't want that to happen but they aren't going to walk all over me and try to do whatever with my baby. I'm sure she will come around again at some point. Glad they only come in town for a couple weeks then go back to alaska

Lol 👏 I literally went through the same thing. I wouldn't ask about it anymore. From the sound of it he probably told them to butt out and maybe he noticed some of the shady stuff and brought that up to.

@princesslina, by the way he came in and didn't call on way home like always...something happened. he was pretty quite and upset looking. I gave him his space. from his look stuff was said bc all I got was "we won't be hearing from my family any more" "don't worry about it it will just make the situation worse" I hope he stuck up for me also bc I'm sure my name was every other word out of her mouth

Oh boy did they argue!? Well I hope he stuck up for you!

@princesslina, apparently he talked to her or she called him. idk what was said bc he didn't even call me on the way home like he always does then he came in and I knew just by the way he was acting. he said just said you don't have to worry about them any more. his mom has done this before....everybody has faults except them lol lame

Lol amen girl. It's like we in the sameeee boat

@princesslina, really I don't get why they think we had our baby for them lol they had kids... move on and adopt if you need another baby to care for. this one is mine lol he says he is going to talk to her today...we will see bc none of them like confrontation or he will "forget"

I totally feel you. It took awhile before my fiancé saw where I was coming from... Saw his mom's true colors. It's her first grandchild I get that. But some of the things she does and says irks the heck out of me. Like picking my baby's take home outfit. I wanted to do that. I have a bow I wanted to use as part of the outfit. Something my daughter's godmother gave to me. His mom says it's ugly and not the color she had in mind. Excuse me... I thought this was my child?? My fiancé says I should ignore her. Kind of hard to!

@princesslina, my husband tells me she doesn't know better but won't tell her. he needs to so I don't. I don't like going around his family

In laws can be very annoying... Mine tamed herself... But I kind of keep my distance. My fiancé understands why. Too much drama man. The baby makes it worse.

wow @bentleysmomma I don't get why they think they have the right to do that. my husbands family will be lucky if we go over there.

I told my parent in laws that I wanted to get my son a jumper thing for Christmas. What did they do? Bought one right after I told them that. Didn't let me help pick it out. Wasn't even the one I wanted. Now Idk what to get as his "big" gift. 😒👿