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Zaria Powell
Zaria Powell
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)

IM REALLY UPSET AND ON THE VERGE OF HURTING SOMEONE 😡😡😡😡

IM REALLY UPSET AND ON THE VERGE OF HURTING SOMEONE 😡😡😡😡

So....... I was upset bout my bday plans. Made a homemade turkey grinder cuz some ladies say food makes everything better. It distracted me and cured my worry. Then my sis comes home from work with cheddar broccoli soup. PANERA cheddar broccoli soup. My fave. Everything was perfect. I was in such a great mood. Felt like I loved everyone. Even my moms cat for a moment BEFORE HE CLAWED MY NIP AND WRIST AND MADE ME BLEED. He doesn't have his shots. My cat doesn't either but she doesn't give me the reactions he does. I get bad welts and allergy like symptoms. I know I'm allergic to animals but my moms cat nd rabbit are the only ones that I seem to be allergic to and give me that kinda reaction, only the bunny doesn't give me welts. My bros dog did the same but it stopped cuz "he got a bath". Mind you he hasn't had a bath since the first time he got washed...... A YEAR AGO. No symptoms. Apparently he was in evergreen trees a lot tho before coming here. Which I'm also allergic to. But I feel like I haven't flared cuz he got his shots. Which was the same day as his wash. The bunny has her shots too tho. So what could be giving me these reactions. I'm not around the bunny much cuz she's caged. Whenever she's out she's downstairs. But her cat doesn't stay downstairs like he's supposed to. He always gives me these symptoms whenever he touches me or lays on stuff I put on my body (clothes, pillow, blanket, chair, etc) But the welts only form from a long period of touching and scratches. They get super big the more I scratch but start to get an annoying pain if I don't scratch. What should I do about him. My mom doesn't want him caged. But my cat has to stay caged or stay in my room. It's not fair. Whatever he does he's always seen as an angel to her. If he does anything to harm my baby I swear I'll kill him. I haven't been myself since becoming pregnant. My anger is worse. I don't want to harm a poor defenseless animal tho. I actually rescue animals. All the animals in our house are rescued. Anyways I want to take him to the vet without her knowing and get him his shots and neutered cuz he won't stop attacking me and scratching. She says she's gonna do it but it's been months now and I'm tired of it. Especially since I'm pregnant. If I do that would that fix the problem?

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maygi0221

gigi

im not a cat person , but try to talk to your mom or ask your doc about the allergies reaction.. my FIL is leaving with us and he has a cat and a dog and I said sorry but no I can't have them in my house . personally I have a dog my mom it's taking care of him it hurts a lot but I got very sensible with me allergies Seens I got prego. .. .

talk to your mom hun. 😘

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zizi_loves_keia

Zaria Powell

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)

@maygi0221, I have talked to her every time it's happened since we got him. But she gets upset and locks herself and the cat in her room. By nightfall I'll hear him open my room door and get on my bed, my kitties litty box or he wakes me by attacking me or my cat. I can lock my room door but it can only be unlocked from the outside. I don't want to make my mom upset. She gave the cat to her bf which is now her ex. He can't have cats at his house tho so the cat stays here and he buys all the stuff needed for the cat. However when it comes to getting shots/ neutered he doesn't have any money 😑😒 I'm getting fed up with it all. I know she loves that cat. That's why I feel if I do all that for her it'll make her and me happier. I mentioned doing it for her ex earlier but she doesn't want me spending money on his cat. Then I said it was affecting my health and she threw a fit. I can tell it stresses her and I'm tired of this cat hurting everyone. Physically, emotionally and any other way he does.

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