Has anyone every feel that sometimes u want to stop doing for people and just for once be able to…

Has anyone every feel that sometimes u want to stop doing for people and just for once be able to take care of what u need to rake care for yourself and your child's benefits far as health and everything else. I am so tired I get up and I take care of my lil cousins and it would be easier if you know they do what they need to do because all my life and even last year I put everyone's issues and left my self alone even know I was pregnant and end up losing my baby girl in the process and my life. And so this year I really promised myself that I would do for myself and my child and take care of my health and my baby's health while in the womb to prevent what happened in the beginning of the year happen again and no matter if I have to go the distance my child comes first and I personally wise some people would get that through there minds because I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired and for me to feel this way it's wonderful but sometimes myself as a person I have to learn to selfish especially for the sake of my pregnancy. So I just need some advice ladies.😔. Have a wonderful and blessed rest of your day😉.