I'm 20 weeks and can't distinguish a baby moving or if it's gas and on top of that my "sperm donor"…

Don't keep him away from his child regardless of how horrible he might have been. If he's not dangerous or a threat to the child, they should have a bond. The issues between parents should never interfere with that of the child ☺️

Girl do what you feel is best for you and your baby!

@tej.ruth, even if he wasn't excited when I told him what we're having? Idk I just feel like it's best to just leave well enough alone

@jewellmason1234, that's what I feel like

Then stick with your gut! We know what's best for our babies and a toxic person isn't good for a baby

I'm in a similar situation my sperm donor didn't tell me he had a ex wife a son a fiance and a newborn. he told me to kick rocks and get an abortion. well I didn't. I'm 31 weeks and it's tough not having someone there to help support but ultimately it's you decision. ask him if he wants to be apart of your baby's life

@jadedplumeria, I know he don't but idk he told his wife that I wasn't even pregnant and I'm lying and I'm just how can I lie when I know where you live and he wants to work things out with her I don't want to be the reason their family is broken and stuff even though it was before I entered the picture he has a 5 month old child he only said he has one child he has three it's like something all the time

@jewellmason1234, thank you!! That means a lot

@melaninmom, honestly I'd let him come to u. if he wants to b involved then let him. but if not then do u. U got this momma💪❤

@jenny73, thank you!!! Soooo much

@melaninmom, :) message me anytime

@jenny73, ok I definitely will!!