so tired of my marriage being crappy. hubby picks on me, kicks me out of bed, downs me then at end of the day tells me im.beautiful etc. he told me earlier today he has been on the edge about our marriage and that he's done. then tells me I need to leave and that i couldnt take the kids. i came back at him with "you couldn't take care of them on your own." baby is 9 days old he's changed 1 diaper and 2 feeds that's it! he hardly spends time with them oldest is 3. he wonders why our oldest wants me when he's sad or scared. i love him more than life itself but it's time for him to grow up. i want the man i fell in love with back. He used to just sit there talking to me, cuddling, date nights, opening up to each other. now it's arguements, he's always on his phone playing on fb, you tube, Pokemon, I mean idk what to do. he tells me he doesn't think our new baby boy is his because he's not pasty white like him. im Indian and he doesn't understand that. im so fed up. no one knows he leaves me no choice but to sleep on the couch because he won't let me Lay in our bed. I'm 9 days out from a csection and am sleeping on the couch because he's being arrogant and selfish. he hasnt told me he loves me all day no matter how many times I said it today. he keeps begging for sexual favors but why should I? im so lost. i love him and don't want to lose our family but I can't do this for the rest of my life. marriage is supposed to be happy not depressing.