Ugh. So my Grandma has only seen my baby four times since he was born and he's almost three months old. She didn't come to his baby shower or come see him in the hospital when he was born. He's her first great grandbaby too. She just makes up an excuse even though she lives like two blocks from us. I'll never force someone to be in my child's life, I'll love him enough to make up for you. On the other hand my mom's parents live in another town an hour from us and they come over at least once every other week if not every week. They were there the whole time I was in labor and came to visit us in the hospital. He's their first grandbaby as well. I just don't get the different reactions between both sides. Oh well I guess.