So I have to decided if I want Ava to be around my boyfriends mom. I took her to see them a couple…

Stop taking her around and let him go alone if they can't appreciate you bringing her than they don't deserve to be around her. Then they'll make the effort if it really matters if not well at least she's not missing anything. All she needs is your love they're the ones missing out.

@mrscruz0530, your right. I just struggle because I'm family oriented but it just was not fun to watch them low key ignore my baby after a while.

I get you girl. Just recently I took my daughter to my dads and he was on his phone like the whole time. I said over and over for him to get off the phone and I would get ignored what got me more mad is we were outside so it started getting cold so I go get a blanket for her because we're standing in front of him while he's sitting in his truck and he still stays on his phone. My daughter was cold and I'm still trying to let u enjoy her and your ignoring her?? I ended up leaving and sent him a huge message after and I told him that my daughter isn't going to compete for his attention and if he wants to stay on his phone then I won't take her because he used to be so strict with my phone so I know he would've flipped out if I was sitting on my phone the whole time, he would turn around and go inside. Bottom line is he realized that I was serious about if and he doesn't even bring his phone with him anymore. Our kids are so special to us so hell ya it hurts to see them being ignored and if you feel this strongly about it mama I think you should day something to them or at least to your bf so maybe he can talk to them... Sorry it's long