Does anyone on here get state daycare assistance? If so how does that work... i ended up getting…

Does anyone on here get state daycare assistance? If so how does that work... i ended up getting that job that i worked my ass off for which should be great... it pays more than I've ever gotten paid in my life. But my mom informed me that she refuses to help watch Oakley anymore because it's "too hard." Most grandparents love spending time with their grandchild but nope not my mom or dad. So basically I have to call and tell them I can't take the job because i have no help with my son. So back to square one, and this could have been really good for me.