I really am in no rush to jump into a relationship again. And honestly I'm not ready:/ my heart…

Ugh I know how you feel. I love my sons father but lately my feelings have changed about him. I'm just not happy with him we fight all the time since he doesn't wanna take care of his son.

It's hard! It took a lot and I do mean a lot for me to leave my sons father. But I did and I've never been happier. I deserve a million times better. Like my head is right, not my heart. I'm glad that I know that and am not going after what my heart wants as hard as it is especially when breaking up isn't what you wanted. And it's not like we can just cut ties with these men which would make it that much easier, we are stuck with them forever even when our kids are grown they still going to be in our lives always linked through our kids. 😶😕@jaxxmommie22

I really just wanna leave but then when I think about everything I'll have to do to get on my own 2 feet I start having a panic attack it's so overwhelming to think about all of it. I'm a stay at home mom so I have like nothing.

I quit my job of almost 6 years to move and be with my ex. I didn't want to move back home to my parents with a baby. And that was a good part that made me stay when I wanted to leave. But I was pushed over the edge and that was it packed all my stuff and moved back home. My family has been super supportive and helpful. I'm still trying to find a job and hopefully be in my own place by next summer. It's hard because I was relying on my ex to help with everything with the baby,but now I'm a single mom and a damn good mom at that. I'll eventually get back on my feet. Don't feel obligated to stay! I did for a long time and i was so miserable. @jaxxmommie22 plus theirs all kinds of help out there that you could receive and he would have to pay child support.

I really don't wanna move back in with my parents. I just feel like I would be intruding on there privacy. N they finally have their house to theirselves. My parents have told me I could come back anytime but I just feel like it's not fair to them. And my parents moved out of their house into an apartment so I feel like my sons stuff would just get in the way of everything. I feel like my depression would be a little bit better but I'd be so stressed bc I'd have to find a job hopefully find a place to live n I'd have to save up to get a car bc I doubt he would let me take ours

It's tough Hun! I thought the same thing with my parents. But they love having both us here. And they have small house so we're all kind of crammed in here but I'm making the best of it. I hate being here a part of me wishes I had stAyed and tried to make it work, plus we had our own house and the baby would of had his own room and it sucks but I cried all the time and was treated like a house plant 😟 if anything try talking to him. I never had a chance to talk to my ex and we still haven't. Everything was left unsaid and I got no closure and I think that is a big reason why I want us to work but ideally I know it won't. And I don't want to put myself back in that same situation to be treated like I'm nothing :/ @jaxxmommie22

@missjess, I've tried to talk to him multiple times and he would start an argument and then say he will help out more but never does. I've started to see a psychologist and I have postpartum depression so I'm on meds. He just thinks it's stupid that I go but calls me a fucking psycho all the time.

Wow what a jerk! I'm so sorry, you deserve so much better!!@jaxxmommie22