I just feel like some things are for the parents like doing their babies rooms their babies first…

I just feel like some things are for the parents like doing their babies rooms their babies first holidays their birthdays I feel like the parents should say how that should go I hate when other people try to do things like when it's not their baby like no u cannot plan my babies party no you cannot pick her costume no u cannot decorate her room in her mom not you be mad if you want too I really don't care