i have been mom shamed so many time for so many different thing. ive been shamed for being a teen…

girl ppl are gonna hate dnt give them the glory u do whats best for u n babys

now it doesnt bother me. it used too amd i got tired of explaining to everyone why i dropped out and why i had to do what i had to do. so now i just ignore it@hernandez

dnt explain to no one bc no one helps u

don't let it bother you, you're doing what you need for your babies, you're working and trying, that says a lot right there. my mom was in the same position with 3 babies but was with my dad. When we got older she turned it all around, went back to school, worked and still took care of us kids, it was hard but she did it for us. Don't believe what they say cuz you can always prove ppl wrong and rise above!

ive been trying to get my ged but everytime i do sometime comes up so right now thag has been set aside and when the time is right i will get it. but as for now im happy with the way things are. @hernandez @geekymomma13

you're still young, you've got time. I wouldn't even let it stress you out or give up. if you're happy and the kids are taken care of then I don't see nothing wrong with it. @juliam27

i just hate when people compare me to other teen moms who dont care at all and who are actually lazy. @geekymomma13

those are the ones who need to get their sh*t straight. my fiances babymomma is 33, no job, govt housing, food stamps, FIP, child support, medicaid and a bf who pays for her internet and to go do things, now THAT is a govt freeloader and mooch. tell them ppl that try to get you down bout parents like that and it should shut them up. you're trying and sometimes we all need help of some kind. @juliam27

me and my husband work but i only work when my parents need me since im about to have the baby. my husband works all day everyday. we pay all our bills and never have money left over for anything thats why food stamps help and my child support. im not using it to go out and partt or to waste it. i use it when i need it. @geekymomma13

Your an amazing mom and anyone shaming you is just jealous and want to see you fail but you have a good head on your shoulders and your kids are what's important to you and you know that so your good girl. It's crazy because I'm sure it's "adults" shaming you acting like immature kids. You got this girl keep it up

exactly, I see his kid in hand me downs from neighbor kids, the only new things she's got is from him and me or her grandparents. she isn't spending a damn dime of child support on what their kid needs. but yet shes got money for weed and pills. you guys just keep doing what you do and ignore everyone hating. they don't have any right to, hell I don't even have a right to say all this bout his baby momma really, but it just pisses me off cuz its parents like her, that abuse assistance, that make all single moms look bad. when in reality there are single parents that do all they can and still need help and get put down for using that assistance.

i had my daughter at 17 and my son at 19 and im about to be 25. yes ive struggled and had to move back with my grandma and parents at times but i picked myself up and did what i had to do and yes most of those adults put me down and talked major crap to me and would look at me ugly. i take care of my kids. i dont go out to party. i dont do drugs. yes i complain about my kids from and i say i need a break but i dont take one im always home with my kids. i see adults who have kids that are my kids ages and they act like teenagers or are constalty out drinking and doing drugs. here i am almost 25 being more responsible than 30 and 40 year olds. @mrscruz0530

i hate how oh just because im on food stamps or child support means im lazy. no im a mom who actually needs help because i have very small paychecks and i only get paid 8 an hour which isnt enough for anything really except pay my bills and pitch in for rent. @geekymomma13

Exactly, people see your age and think automatically your going to fail when really our kids make us want to do better. I have people get on me for not going out or not handing my kid off to anyone who will take her and honestly I take pride in that because it's not about me it's about my daughter. I enjoy staying home with my family and I've been there I've had to move back in with family and it was hard but I overcame it. Your doing great and you've proved so many people wrong I'm sure! I've come to realize that if they don't like how I parent or live my life then they don't need to be there, I'm not forcing anyone and I'm dam sure not going to beg. I've been out on my own since I was 18 and I chose to get married and have a baby and that's the best decision I could've ever made. All we can do is be us and strive for our little ones 💝

all i hear is u need a break and h need to rest but i cant because i need to take care of my kids or clean my house or work. i dont have time to go out and party like these other girls do and i dont have time to any else but take care of my family. if i do go out i feel gulity because i should be home with my kids. @mrscruz0530

Exactly girl I felt guilty when i bought myself a hair straightener after not buying myself anything in so long all we want to do is spoil them!

that's how i feel. when i get money for my birthday i use it on my kids. like when i go and get my nails done i make sure i have enough for my daughter to do her cause then i feel bad for pampering myself. i just dont feel right when i do things without my kids. like last montg we went to the lake and i wasnt feeling good so my parents took the kids with them while i went out to eat with my husband helped cook dinner for when everyone came back from the lake and i felt bad and i kept telling my mom thank you over and over. @mrscruz0530

Girl we need to spoil ourselves more ! I can't wait until I can take my daughter for mani pedis!!! It's good that u try not to depend on other people to take care of your kids like some people do.