So this is supposed to be family vacation / anniversary weekend and what does my husband do right…

So this is supposed to be family vacation / anniversary weekend and what does my husband do right when we get her he calls his friend to come over way to start it i am pissed he couldn't even wait one day i would have been fine if he called him tomorrow but now he cant even spend time with us the first day he takes off. he never takes off he did not even take of when i had lilly. I am so mad and want to cry at the same time. I knew this was going to happen just got my hopes up that he was really going to spend time with us and to top it off i should be resting but nope he cant help with that and got mad at me and said dont start this shit we have a hole week to together when i know dame well that not going to happen.