So me and my boyfriend finally agreed on a name we both like. This was a issue and we were actually starting to argue about it! He wanted to name his first son after him, making our son the third . And I've just never been a fan of that , so I said I will compromise , give him your middle and last name and we will do Jace as the first name (we both liked the name , but he was still set on naming the baby after him) so we were looking at baby names and we found one we both love . Not telling anyone else , but I can tell you all cause I can't not tell somebody ! Lol. Our son will be named Holden Bryce Johnson. 💙😍 we love it but no one will be expecting it because everyone knows we've been having trouble agreeing . I do feel bad because my be says naming my son after me is important to me.. But it's like I've always had dreams of naming my kids this or that like he's my child too my opinion should matter too, and also I carry him and have to go through labor etc ..
What's frustrating is that my boyfriend is like trying to make me feel bad and always says "well how come you get what you want and I don't , it never about me always about what you want " like he's kindve acting childish about the whole thing . It kindve upset me I'm like we can't even agree on a name , what's this say about how we will do as parents... And someone told me to just name him Jeffrey Kevin Johnson (my boyfriends name) but just call him Jace . So idk. But he likes the name Holden and I looked up middle names to go with it and we both liked Bryce . And since we figured it out I feel so better lol @jenny73 @candidbabex @carlitojrmami @mrs.n2014
He doesn't understand that I was trying to compromise with him.. That yeah the name wouldn't be his but I tried to do his middle and last name and he couldn't even agree on that.. Like I told him, what if I always dreamed of having kids and had names picked out .. What if my favorite boy name was Alex James and I always dreamed of that being my boys name? (It's not , i just totally made it up) but do y'all get what I'm going with this ? Lol.