After a year of being nothing but hateful and degrading to both my daughter and I, BD decides to…

After a year of being nothing but hateful and degrading to both my daughter and I, BD decides to stop in 2 days ago to my work and say "So how's Samira? I haven't seen her since she was 3 months.". Today I got sent this message: " Good afternoon, I'm sorry for asking about Samira the other day, I feel guilty as though I shouldn't have asked. I know she's in good hands, thank you for being an excellent mother to her. Again, I am sorry if I offended you by asking about her." I didn't respond. 10 minutes ago, while doing dishes, I get sent another message, which is as follows: " Excuse me, I have a question. May I be allowed to get Samira something for Christmas? Its been running around in my head since her bday, i want to get her something, with your approval that is. If not, I understand too." Last year he demanded her cord (yes,demanded) to make a dream pouch for her. I gave him a small snippet. I have yet to see the pouch he so direly needed her cord for. Now, after over a year of nothing but harshness and lies from him and his family, he decides to come and ask about her. Sounds mean, but he can fuck off. This momma aint having it.