Erm why are people proving who they are?? I know there are a lot of fake profiles around.. im not…

Erm why are people proving who they are?? I know there are a lot of fake profiles around.. im not sure who or wat as im new to this app. But were adults arent we? you either speak to someone or not. Im not fake by the way.. and im not taking a selfie. (just saying)... have a 9 day old baby 2 others... trying to adjust to family life... feeling and looking like Sh*t... Lol.