okay my cousin is using the name we picked out for our sons middle name as the first name for her son after I told her what we where naming him and we can not change it cuz my fiance got his name tattooed on him. so pissed off.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Okay ladies I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. my bf has always wanted to name his first son after him and I was fine with that before I got pregnant now that there's a 50% chance of having a boy I really don't like the name for my son. I am not going to mention any of this to him unless we are for sure that this baby is a boy. but it's like eating me up inside. I love the name for my bf but not for my baby. how do I tell him this without him freaking out? thanks in advance ladies.
