I am in so much pain but I am so deliriously happy at same time, first night home, oh has sent me to…

Oh i feel your pain hun im 12 days post op and that first week was the worst/best week of my life its so hard not been able to look after your baby too isnt it!! I feel much better now tho so hope you feel better soon xoxo

@laylalou, thanks Hun, did you have a second procedure too? Or just a bad recovery after section? When I had my son it was fine xxx

@hawkie75, just a bad recovery had 16 hours labour first and emergency section then had infections and lost alot of blood. Put of havin any more for life lol xozo

@laylalou, lol I'm glad that's the lot for me!

This is my plan to be sterilized, having a planned section due to having 2 with last 2 babies, but this is our 5th baby and. A huge suprise but a lovely one, thought my baby days were over, just one question do u have more pain from having tubes done or do u think its just the section? Im worried there will be another sort of pain from the tubes if that makes sense xx

@safiamammy1, well when I left hospital last night I mentioned how much more pain I was in and that it was a lot different to when having my son, she said yes every woman who had the tubal ligation after always complains of more painful recover for the first week, to do with messing about with you more inside etc...it's just nobody told me, would of been nice to know as I couldn't understand how much worse I felt getting out of bed the next day, I'll be ok I just need stringer pain killers this week, I googled it and it's very common. I'm still glad I did it, better than messing on with birth control xxx good luck Hun, think the key is just to be prepared x

Yes i agree i will make sure i have pain killers in the house, i was going to try and breast feed but i was worried that i would need pain killers when came home and didnt want to pass anything on to baby through milk, so think i will just be bottle feeding like the others, did the section take much longer to do with being tied afterwards? Ive got 8/9 weeks to go 39 weeks is boxing day so im hoping with my high blood pressure ect they will go at 38 weeks, i dont want to miss xmas with the other kids, but what will be will be, and i agree no contraception has worked for me i fell pregnant on pill and 2 coils fell out so this is my plan and also hoping as i wont be on the pill i will loose a little bit of weight too haha xx glad ur home and ok chick xxx

Thanks Hun, I was 38+5 days, and no it didn't take too much longer you hardly notice cause you have your baby by then lol good luck Hun xxxx