My fiance thinks im nuts because I spend all day with our son and then when he comes home I dont…
My fiance thinks im nuts because I spend all day with our son and then when he comes home I dont expect more than a couple diaper changes and i spend the majority of the time cuddled up with our little guy. But honestly I just really enjoy having the little one to myself the majority if the time, and I love the bond we're creating when we cuddle skin to skin, so I make it a point to wind down and just cuddle him, even though im with him all the time. That and after a long day at work, (my fiance works 10to 12 hour days) my fiance deserves a little time to wind down and relax. It wouldnt be fair to drop all the weight of caring for our two week old on him the second he gets home. Besides, i dont mind the diaper changes or the fussy episodes or breastfeeding every two hours, sure im exhausted but i get a break every time Henry takes a nap. My fiance gets a half hour break in a 10 hour plus work day. He deserves a few hours to himself. SMH. I explained all this to him and he still thinks Im doing too much lol. Ive got a good man.