Okay I need to rant because I'm alone and letting it fester.

Okay I need to rant because I'm alone and letting it fester.

I don't understand why men are willing to put their relationship/marriage on the line so easily. Seems like every time I turn around he's picking something or someone else over me and it just really starts to pile up. The worst part is he's absolutely perfect other than that. We have a good sex life. We have good communication skills. We are attracted to each other. Really his only flaw is that he seems to lack the willpower to put our relationship first. He apologizes all the time when I tell him this but it doesn't actually ever change. I hate to give him an ultimatum because that feels emotionally abusive and controlling of me to do. But I almost feel like he needs to be told to either pick this relationship/our family or himself.