**Just thinking out loud and reaching out for opinions and different points of views** Idk how to…
**Just thinking out loud and reaching out for opinions and different points of views** Idk how to feel rn... There's so much going on and I feel like I should be more excited about my first pregnancy... I feel like I've been more in tune with the possibility of becoming a mom before than I do now... Our roommate's furbaby snuck out when I opened the door and never came back... I feel sooooo bad!!! He usually goes out... But usually comes back before dark. And... This is my my bf's 3rd... And all I can think about is how his ex will take finding out the news... Because she wanted more before they split over 2 years ago... I don't want to send her into depression... And I worry about how the boys will take it... Especially if their mom cries over it or says something to them. They might want to be happy about it... But will feel guilty... And I worry about my BF and my parenting styles clashing. 😬😩 Sometimes I feel like I'm not even preggers because I don't get morning sickness... And I'm not showing yet or feeling bloated at 8 weeks.
Lonna·
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Thank you 😊💗
Carrie·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
It says a lot about you that you're worried about how your bf's ex will take it and u don't want her depressed. Don't worry. I'm sure everyone will be just fine. How old are the other kids? I have an 8yo bonus son who is super excited. He already has a little brother with his mom and she's been trying to make him his sister. And I barely had symptoms other than fatigue. Still can't believe I'm pregnant even though I feel baby girl moving around like crazy
Christine Gonzalez·
Мама дочки-младенца
Agreed 👆🏼 it wasn't until my last two weeks that I actually felt preggo. I had such a breezy pregnancy that it was almost ridiculous 🙈 everyone kept asking me if I was ready to have her out or craving anything and I honestly was real chill. I didn't even get the pregnancy waddle. Sending prayers your way to ease your mind little mama 😘
Lonna·
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@Kel utzy, The boys are 8 & 10... The ten year old used to love the idea of me being his step-mom... Because I'd do fun things with them. But I was kind of being a hoverer with high expectations for cleanliness, homework, not lying & respect... So it was a little too much for him & not what he was used to. After he had a problem with his Dad and I giving each other just a peck for a kiss the other day... I've tried to back off a LOT so my BF can be the disciplinarian a little more... And that seems to have helped. I think he still wants his parents to get back together... even though they've been legally separated for two years... Divorce papers were ready to be signed a year and a half ago... But she wanted to go to court for some adjustments... They've just finally agreed on something and are settling out of court. The oldest brought up that we shouldn't be kissing because he's still "married." Even though she had a live-in BF and the boys used to call the BF "Dad." Now the guy is out of the picture... I'm still around and am not going anywhere. He told his dad he "hated" me because I was annoying. Lol Guess I was doing the job too well... I would catch him in his lies, sneaky behavior & made him do his hk... But I also had to really fight and convince his parents for him to play football after wanted to play and missed it last year. Idk... Just trying to find the balance and make (the impossible) everybody happy. Lol
Lonna·
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@Chris istineg, I just don't feel swollen AT ALL anymore!!!... I feel like my little person and sac in there is shrinking! 😬 I'm still tired, nauseous at certain smells & have to pee every 2 hours... But I don't feel like I'm as big as I was... I feel like I'm losing it.