@emkasting yup and we both got out. yay! ☺

I'm sure you've heard this before but it's not your fault. I know what it's like to be in an emotionally controlling relationship, it can really mess with you. I'm glad you got away when you did @goodbyelullabye

same with me. I felt good after he left. he was worried about me getting fat after I had Joshua. I had to look and dress a certain way, he didn't even like it if talked our male waiter at a restaurant, and I couldn't spend money without his permission. it was stupid shit like that. now I can talk to a man and not feel like I'm cheating. he's still got it stuck in my head that everything is my fault. I'm surprised I didn't have to go therapy. it feels good to be free though. now I can only hope and pray he finds another woman so he'll leave us alone