Ok so I have a question. I understand you're not supposed to use bumpers because they are a SIDS risk, and I know they make mesh ones that are supposed to be safer and better. However, the mesh ones don't fit on my crib and my daughter kicks her little legs and arms out of the bars and bangs her head on the wood. So what am I supposed to do now? I'm so afraid to put her in her crib because I don't want her to hurt herself but she can't sleep in a pack and play forever.