Hi everyone I'm a stay at home wife my husband believes because he works he doesn't need to help me with the baby and our 3 year old child I can't eat,shower or anything because if I ask him to watch the kids so I can get any of these things done he says I work this is not my job am I being selfish?
Welcome to the club I'm starting to believe my husband thinks the same thing. @mariah_grandberry
Girl me and u both I mean we're wives but still feel like a single parent I honestly don't know what to do anymore
Mine thinks the same thing. He'll hold her but only if I tell him to. So he holds her so I can make his and my other kids dinner, but while I eat I'm holding her, I change her, I bathe her, I breastfeed but also do bottles so he could do that but doesn't. It's exhausting
Lml right now he's upset because I put the baby down while he was watching a movie to make a bottle and the baby was crying
do what i did i got up super early while they were all sleeping and i left i called him and told him o i left and the kids are sleeping his ass sat there all DAM day with them babies lol when i came home he apologized for not helping me and he sees how hard it is... now he helps he complains all the time but he helps 😂😂
That's very selfish of him. Being a stay at home mom is a job too. My man works 50+ hours weekly and helps every chance he gets
lol I can't get him to watch them if I'm going to the store I have to take them to cook I have to take them in the kitchen to cook smh
no just because he works doesn't mean he gets a free pass on helping raise his kids ... he laid down to help make em he should be helping .... sorry i went tru this with my hubby he thought a moms job is to do everything and he just "pays" for em uh uh we fixed that shit lol he watches em everyday now
Smh @mariah0809 and on top that I'm running the family business with the kids