I wish I knew how not to.. lol I wish I could ignore her. But she talks shit on my to my husband and it's so annoying. She was all he had growing up so they are like attached at the hip.. and we just had our first baby in June also her first grand Baby and she tries to take him over night all the time and gets mad when I take him to see my mom or ask my mom to babysit.. it's really just annoying