me and my baby talked last night and he told me he wants another baby because our first one died sadly wat should i do
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I actually kind of know what your going through. I was on birth control at 15 but still managed to get pregnant. I miscarried that baby. It's hard I understand. But one thing I promised myself was my child would have a better life than I did.. I was in foster care and in and out of 15 different homes by the time I was 16! My partner and I have been together since 15 we moved in together at 16 but because of my promise I stayed on birth control until graduation. I told myself when I brought my kid into this world he/she would have everything they needed. I understand wanting children esp when you grew up with no family. But I knew that I would never Be able to give my kid the right start if I didn't at least graduate high school first.. Right after graduation I started trying I miscarried once more then three months later I was pregnant again with my son..I'm 21 pregnant for the 7th time hopefully my baby #2 with the same man..we have a three bedroom house a car a stable income.. Trust me if I didn't wait we wouldn't have been able to accomplish that and my newborn wouldn't have had all the needs
Personally I would wait if I was you. At least until your finished with High School. I have two older sisters that got pregnant while in high school. One when she was a freashman and struggled to graduate, work, and take care of her daughter. The other got pregnant when she was a Senior and she always told me she wished she would have waited so she could have experienced prom and graduation trip and all the things you do during your senior year. She delt with buying baby stuff, making money, moving into her own place, and graduating. She never walked just was handed her diploma in the main office. I had my first at 19 I'm in college and its hard. I gave up my college life, I gave up friends, I moved to a state with no family. Me and my husband went from having money buying whatever we wanted paying our bills on top of my sister's being pregnant and financial stable. To not having a job, being 20 weeks pregnant homeless, and having to start all over again while trying to buy baby things and thinking about this little baby growing inside me and what we were going to do. I grew up in a family with teen parents and it's hard being a parent period but its a thousand times harder being a teen parent. Enjoy your last year of high school and enjoy being young while you can because once you have a child your life will change forever. It's emotionally hard and physically hard not only on you but on a relationship. Some relationships make it but other's dont because of the stress of raising a child. That's just my opinion in the end you'll do as you want same as I did because as a teen I thought I had it all figured out and knew everything about being a parent and being an adult but boy was I wrong.
yea you don't wanna be preggo at graduation or prom, you wanna be able to have fun your senior year not worry about buying diapers and bottles
yea I'm thinking about all that I'm giving up and it's my Senior year to man
it's easy for a guy to say yeah I want one, but ultimately it's up to you, your the one that has to sacrifice, your the one that has to give alot up, but in the end its all up to you
I'm telling him he's sayin he's ready we have 2 weeks to think about it
you both are young, if you feel like mentally, physically, and emotionally yall are both ready for a baby than why not, but if yall aren't and just wanting one cuz yalls first past away that's not a good enough reason for having another baby, they are hard work.
aew that's beautiful