I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy....

Completely normal. My mom was there for the birth of my first. Then she was babysitting my first for the birth of my second lol

It's totally normal to have your mom in the room with you. He's a man and he doesn't understand. I'm having my mom too

@babymaciesmomma, @moorrggiee ok that's what I thought but he has turned this whole thing into an argument. It's exhausting.

Not wrong at all!! I wish my mom would've been there for their births

my mom and sisters were in mine lol both times and same when my sister had her babies

Lol men are weird. Yeah it's his experience too but it's YOU giving birth. YOU are the main focus. YOU are the one experiencing it and needing support. You should get to decide.

Totally normal. I've had many friends have their mom in the room with them.

trust u need all the help I held my sis legs both times and my sis held mine and one takes picz

I'm having my mom and my sister in the room

Not at all at lot of women want their mom's there and I think the finial decision comes to you.

I mean he isn't getting a say in this (as mean as that sounds) she's going to be there regardless of what he thinks/says. I just don't understand his logic. I don't understand why it's a big deal...

He's tripping big time. Is he a little jealous of your relationship?

@gcpaschal, I mean not that I know of? Then again I'm sure he wouldn't tell me... I have no idea to be honest. I didn't even know this was something I had to discuss. I'm assuming because he's a guy he doesn't understand but I really don't even know. Either way she will be there and if he has a problem with it he can stay outside the room lol

My mom was there for my first two births. She couldn't come this time because of work and I was really sad. It's YOUR birth, not his. Don't let him change your mind.

@gcpaschal, but his parents were very hard on him as a child so idk if that has anything to do with it?

@housfullofgrls, trust me it won't. Like I said, if he has a problem with it then he either needs to suck it up or stand outside the room. I just don't have the energy to argue.

Honey, YOU are having this baby, not him, not anyone else. You are in your full right to invite whoever you want, and kick the heck out whoever you don't want. No One has the right to tell YOU what YOU need. :)

I was gonna have my mom with me too but I had a c-section so that didn't happen. a lot of women in fact most want their mom's in there because they have been through labor and everything.

If my mom was alive she definitely would've been in the room!

Um everyone has there mother with them. My twin sister has came to all of mine and mine to hers. it's not childish and it's up to you not hin

Whatttt????? That's crazy as hell . I moved back home to be with my mom . That's what moms are kinda for I would regret it big time if she wasn't there. He is tripping

My mom was in the room for my first two births. I hope you work it out.

I dont know anyone who didn't have their mom in the room if possible.

@xalyssasays, I really wonder if deep down he wishes he had a better relationship with his parents. I don't have a good relationship with my Mom. It was just hubby and I when I had our baby. I wish I had a great relationship with my Mom. I would have wanted her there.