y'all I just got upset smh sooooo this is me and my husband's second marriage. I got divorced and he…
y'all I just got upset smh sooooo this is me and my husband's second marriage. I got divorced and he is a widower.. so to make a long story short my mom has told me that he still refers to her as "his" wife . well from what I learned that's no longer his wife . when he takes on another even if she has passed ..but any who I feel as if that's disrespectful ..just call her by her name and get that damn tattoo off your back!! U said she cheated on you a couple times anyway ugh smh .. hell even if I pass and he gets married again I don't won't him making his wife uncomfortable.
no one told me u can have two wives ! smh
also just had to get an attitude with him cause he was outside talking to his "SIL and BIL" that's what he still calls them... for two hours when he was supposed to be in here breaking furniture down ... smh I told him he needs to bring his butt up here and handle his business and he can talk to his "friends" later ...
maybe I need to start referring my ex husband's family as my in laws and see how he feels .
all I say is just call them by their names they have no titles anymore. smh
Patti Anderson·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I can understand how u feel. Don't have any advice though
Jessica·
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He also chose to marry YOU and make YOU his wife. I'd be upset by it too. The BIL & SIL, i could probably deal with. But the wife thing, hail no!!
Evelyn·
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Can you maybe just talk to him about it calmly? Let him know it hurts your feelings and maybe you can compromise on him calling her his "first wife" and you Wife? Or have him call you a special nickname you choose together. It sounds like it's tough on you but think of it as an opportunities to grow together in intimacy :) Good luck!
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
How long ago did she die? Maybe he doesn't even realize he's doing it? It would bother me too, but i don't think the BIL and SIL would bother me. He gained them as family members
Victoria·
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yeah all are right about the in law thing.. it wouldn't bother me if he wasn't calling her his wife still. and I don't care about him loving her it's just respect me in the process. also she has been gone for 8 years now. and I will have to talk with him cause it just doesn't set well in my heart . and your right I did choose to divorce but it's still no longer his wife u can't have two and yes he did gain family .I would feel better if he said his late or first wife he making me sound like I'm chopped liver . @bianca_rose @evie411 @jessijane84 @patti28 @vamommy89
Victoria·
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thanks y'all for your comments 😏 I appreciate them