@ainsleighsmumma yeah, he's only almost 11 weeks. I'll talk to his Grandmother about kinda getting into a routine. I've kinda just let him do his own thing right now. feed on demand and sleep when he needs to. when he is older I plan on revelling an actual routine with the one he has set.

I have a nap times and a bed time. She wakes up at 7-8am and takes her first nap at 11am her second nap is at 4pm then she goes to bed at 7:45-8pm. Since my daughter is on a routine she puts herself to sleep and knows when its her nap times. Her eyes will get heavy she'll want a bottle and if I'm holding her she'll lay her head on my chest and go right to sleep. At bed time I give her a kiss and lay her in her crib she rolls over and goes right to bed.

It depends on your style of parenting and if you believe in the cry it out method or not, and how old the baby is. Older babies you can wear them out with playing, give them a bottle and lay them down to soothe themselves and eventually they'll fall asleep. But if they're less than 6 months getting a nap time routine is a little tricky and it may be because he is just more comfortable with mom at this young age, everyone likes to blame co-sleeping but really it's because the child has the closest bond with mom instead of grandma at this time.

@ainsleighsmumma thank you! any reccomendations for naptime routine?

Make a bedtime / nap time routine, and always do the same thing before bed or naps and then have the other people follow the routine as well. It may take awhile but he'all learn that when that happens it's time to sleep. Just gotta make sure the other person is following the routine