Is it controlling ; that I don't like my husband watching porn ? -I consider it to be cheating . In some way . Because…

don't ask me. I feel the same exact way.

I agree with u. He is choosing that instead of me and it wouldnt make me feel wanted or desires especially if I am making myself available.

im totally the same way!!

I'm the same also

I totally agree!

Well he says I'm too self conscious that's why it bothers me but I don't know wouldn't me sexting with males be the same . And receiving dick pics

I agree with you. He probably wouldn't want you getting off to another guy right? He'll get over it. My so used to be the same but finally got over it now we don't have that prob anymore thank god

it's not cheating he didn't actually fuck her. that just how men are som.e women will say oh my man doesn't watch it because they will tell u what you want to hear but every guy watch's it. my bf watch's porn and we like to watch it together being together for six years we like to spice it up a little bit 😜

@ktwins188 im glad you said that bc its true i don't think its cheating either and it does spice up the relationship but its just something men do whether their wives/girlfriends know about it

well I Dnt think is cheating but I think is VERY DISRESPECTFUL. I feel like if he love u and he know u dnt like it then he should stop it. it's call lusting on other female that us NOT U. So tlk about it to him.

i used to think the samething, but now we watch it together sometimes....it helped us open up with the things we like in the bedroom......men usually watch what they dont think we would do or are too embarrassed to ask us to do....try to look at it in a more positive way and talk about what yall like together....also my fiance watches iy when im too tired for sex....just because we aren't horny doesnt mean they aren't so instead of going to be with another women.....you never know what he is thinking while watching it....he could imagine your face on them girls and his on the mens....hope this helps

lol I his hope sue didn't get offensive.

Well I guess I am over reacting and or immature still in a sense , but from what I know .. they go online and look for a video with a girl who calls their attention . Something pleasing to their eyes ..and come on let's face it. A lot of us moms feel self conscious about our bodies , something they know . To me that's why It counts cause he looked for someone who was appealing to him . And that does not make it much different from me going online and looking for a male to talk to ... and asking for sexual texts .. because we'll it's not like I'm fucking him .. he just looked appealing and that's that x