Debate I had with a friend. She said she don't let her boyfriend like other females pics on social…
Debate I had with a friend. She said she don't let her boyfriend like other females pics on social media and if he does she gets mad at him. Now I felt like that stupid. In my opinion men have eyes and will look no matter what. I could care less about a like cause I'm not insecure with myself at all. And I refuse to let social media be an issue in my relationship it isn't worth it. So she basically said my man probably cheating on me cause he "likes females pictures" I guess I'm cheating too cause I like guys pictures all the damn time don't mean I'm sleeping with them. Her comment was stupid cause not all guys are the same.
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I think it's ok to look but the need to "like" to me is distasteful imo. I'm secure in my marriage with my husband, but that doesn't mean i wouldn't be offended if he was looking at someones tits right in front of my face. That to me would be the same thing. Acknowledging the sex appeal of another women for me to see it. To me it's a matter of respect. You see it, like it in your head, and keep moving. However, some relationships work in a way such as yours where it isn't bothersome, and as long as both parties are on the same page then that's all that matters.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@arivera64, my boyfriend like normal pictures of females. I mean I never noticed him like any sexual pics of females and I can honestly say idk how I'd feel if he did. And yes every relationship is different and everyone has their own comforts and discomforts. But for someone to assume he's cheating on me cause he simply liked a females picture is dumb to me
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I think it depends on the photo but, I really don't care for it honestly lol it is kinda stupid to be mad about
Amanda·
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@navywifej, right . And also to say he probably cheating is dumb. Like that man is always up my damn ass and always working and even at work he's always on the phone with me.
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to say he's cheating cause of a like is ridiculous that's going too far now lol
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yeah i wouldn't assume he's cheating
Jessie·
Мама троих детей
Doesn't bother me
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Doesn't mean he's cheating at all. If you two are comfortable with that it's no big deal. Me and my husband have a boundary drawn. We don't get personal with the opposite sex nor do we do anything to make ourselves appear wrong like being alone with the opposite sex. I've had several friends lose marriages over accusations that weren't true. We have both been burnt in that area too so we are just careful and completely open to each other. We share Facebook, passwords, emails, pass codes etc. we are completely comfortable living this way. We are in love with each other and it works for us. It's great that you are so secure in yourself. That's hard for me to do. :)