so yesterday was my daughters 1st birthday. my twin sister was coming up until the day before when…
so yesterday was my daughters 1st birthday. my twin sister was coming up until the day before when apparently her truck broke down so they wouldn't be able to make it. well they have 2 vehicles so dont know why they couldnt drive that one. So anyways they cancelled but i never got a text or call that they werent coming, i only found out from my mom. But the thing that really bugs me is she never even acknowledged my daughters birthday. Since meeting her husband she has turned into such a selfish person, she thinks only her son is important. That we all should drive 3 hours for her sons parties. which every year we have. always buy nice big presents for him. But she never comes out for her nieces and nephews or says happy birthday. sorry for the rant just sp frustrated with her behavior. I cut her out of my life once already and she tried for one day to make amends and thats it. Time to delete her and her sorry excuse for a husband out of my life again.
🧚🏻♂️Sarah🧚🏻♀️·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
I know how you feel family can be frustrating. my brother hasn't even said anything to me since my son was born. not even a congrats on fb
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки (1 год)
wow. sorry to hear that. it just blows my mind how a family memeber can act like that. @sarah433
🧚🏻♂️Sarah🧚🏻♀️·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
@melissafrattinger, yup somtimes it's better to just cut them off. they clearly don't care anyway. who needs that crap anyway.
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки (1 год)
ya i hear you. i just blocked her on fb and instagram and deleted her phone number. ignoring my daughter was the last straw. @sarah433
Lisa·
Мама двоих (12 лет, 18 лет), ждёт третьего
Good for you.. I've realized that the more you ignore ppl and mirror back how the treat you they tend to come around and respect you way more for it.
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки (1 год)
thanks @starting_over39 thats what am hoping for. but time will tell, until then thats one less toxic person gone from my daughters life
Lisa·
Мама двоих (12 лет, 18 лет), ждёт третьего
@melissafrattinger, Absolutely!! it may seem hard at first because it's not in your nature or character to be cold. You'll get use to it eventually trust me and as much as you miss the good times with them, you need to ensure they stay in their lane when it comes to how they treat you. You don't need the drama, life is too short. Be grateful for those who care for you and delete the rest 😉.
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки (1 год)
agree with you completely! thanks for not making me out to be the villian @starting_over39
nullnvoid·
I agree with the comments. I would just leave her alone and continue to do you. the only thing I would suggest is to keep in touch with your nephew...unless that will prove difficult. he is still young. .your sister will figure it out eventually I hope. family can be so trying at times
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки (1 год)
oh ya am still planning on buyi g christmas and birthday gifts for him. he shouldnt be punished for this falling out. @pnutbutta