My baby was 9.5lbs, I tore and needed stitches but I swear to God I didn't feel anything 🙏🏽

I tore but didnt feel it because of the epidural. I needed 2 stitches and didnt feel that either. My daughter was 6 lbs

I tore but my daughter was 8lbs 14oz. Only needed three stitiches. I felt the doctor putting the stitches in but I was just to focus on my daughter. Taking care of them didn't hurt at all. I was back to having sex when I was 11 days PP.

it also depends how gentle your dr is with you. mine was very good with using a lot of lubricant for when you push and i tore just a bit. some drs just don't care.

I tore with my first but I didn't feel it I only knew because my mom told me I am only 5 foot and she was 7lbs 10oz

If you get the epidural you wont feel it at all if you do tear. You wont feel getting stitches either. And the aftercare for them is easy and they dont hurt a whole bunch.

I tore a little with my daughter but she was 9lbs. I didn't need stitches though

You don't feel it when it happens it's the healing process that hurts

I tore when I had my son but I didn't even know it until a bit later. Had to have 4 stitches but they dissolved on their own and I wouldn't have even known if the nurse hadn't mentioned it lol