please. No harsh words. I can't stop crying. I literally broke down last night. crying. shaking and…
please. No harsh words. I can't stop crying. I literally broke down last night. crying. shaking and hyper ventilating.
if u follow me you'll know about my bf being "curious" about a message he received on eharmony.
I'm so hurt. what if he didn't have to pay. would he have talked to her? im.carrying his child and he is curious about what another girl sent him...
I just can't seem to understand
and he knows my whole story about my ex who was very abusive and a liar and cheater. and he has been trying to get me to trust him and then he makes me feel this way. he's like I'm sorry I wasn't trying to hurt u. and I'm like so u thought I'd be okay with u having interest in someone else?
I truly believe he is a good man but now I really feel like im.not enough. im.so overwhelmed.
Emily·
Мама подростков
I am so sorry you are dealing with this on top of being pregnant. No woman deserves it. Maybe think about couples counseling?
Jennifer·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (11 нед.)
@emily18234, no offense to anyone but I don't believe in that
Monica·
Мама сына-младенца
@jenny73, I think you both need to have a serious sit down and communicate, especially about this. All its going to do is eat at you and make you assume a bunch of stuff and he needs to be 100% honest with you about it all. And after the talk, if it goes good move on from it, together.
Jennifer·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (11 нед.)
@arlogreyson, we tried that last night. Bit then I started having a panic.attack and he went to smoke and I fell asleep.
Sara🌺·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
You need to take a few days and "cool down" really think about you two and what's worth fighting for. He really needs to be honest and do anything in his power to prove himself to you. I went thru the same thing with a bf before my husband. I had a hard time getting over it, and don't really think I did get over it. But it definitely ruins trust. But you two are having a baby together and he has got to stop this. I hope for the best for you guys😔 I know how hard it is for you.
Jennifer·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (11 нед.)
@babynumber2ontheway, thank u. it is really tearing up my heart and mind.
Sara🌺·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@jenny73, take some time, you need it. After a few days it'll feel different. I feel your pain girl.
Dele·
Can I ask why you don't believe in couples counseling? You two haven't been together long at all and trust is dwindling/ or wasn't built up strong enough. I think it would do you some good so you two can get on the same page and raise a child together. Then, your anxiety will improve too
Jennifer·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (11 нед.)
@momma0821, I do believe in counseling and I'd like to get it for myself. but my personal opinion is a man that really loves his girl wouldn't betray her. and counseling shouldn't be needed to convince or help someone love someone
Dele·
I think counseling for you guys would more so help you to understand what he says better, and improve communication skills on both ends.