Morning ladies woke up to horrible news.. my friend is in her last month of pregnancy and her…
Morning ladies woke up to horrible news.. my friend is in her last month of pregnancy and her boyfriend is cheating on her talking to other females. To make things worst on of the girls is 16 and he is 21 like serious dude. I wish i was still pittsburgh I would her beat that little girl up.. I guess I'm so upset one she is my best friend and I don't like seeing her hurt two she is carrying his child and he does her like that.. three I been cheating on to many times so it hits home.. ughhh I wanna slap the shit out of her boyfriend
Brea·
I'd be mad at the boyfriend, not the girl. He's the one who is in a relationship with her and committed to her. He's the one breaking the trust and all. He let that girl into their relationship, can't blame the other woman at all. It's 100% all him in the wrong. Some boys just don't realize what they have until it's gone. And I say boys because he is not a man. No man would step out on his pregnant girlfriend AND cheat with a 16 year old.
Chanel·
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@breloya, that little girl new he was in a relationship so yes it's her fault too
Brea·
I can't ever put the blame on anybody but the one cheating, whether the other person knew or not. If he really cared, he wouldn't have strayed. She's a really shitty person for being with him when she knew he was in a relationship, but it isn't her responsibility to ensure he doesn't sleep around. That's his. He's the one betraying her. It was his obligation/agreement to remain faithful that he, himself decided to go against. That was his choice. He was the one who owed her honesty and loyalty, not the other chick. Nobody can force someone to cheat. He let her in, so in my opinion, he's 100% at fault. But we have different opinions and views on that, so I won't try to debate about it.
Patricia Miles·
Мама сына-младенца
I would be mad at the boyfriend. At 16 her maturity level isn't all the way there. That's why if they were to have sex it would be considered statutory rape. Her brain isn't fully developed to determine right from wrong and so even if she consents, she can't legally do so. She may be a young girl with low self esteem who was showed attention. I was that girl before. I was 15 and thought a 23 year old man (who had no business talking to me) loved me. At that age she is legally the victim and rightfully so.
Chanel·
Мама дочки-младенца
@breloya, you right you definitely right
Chanel·
Мама дочки-младенца
@milestide25, victim no I had low self esteem at that age to but I wasn't out there sending nudes
Alison·
Everybody is different. Still, the blame is solely on the person who had a commitment to your friend. This little girl didn't. She's a child. He should've known better and it was his responsibility to say no. Was she right? No. Its messed up of her to do -but she has no obligation to your friend. Beating up a minor would land you in jail so thats not even smart. Though I don't agree with physical violence generally, if you wanted to beat anyone up it should be the guy.
Chanel·
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@al_, I want to beat him up too and yes he is at fault because he was the one in a relationship with my friend but when do these females who sleep with married men or sleep with men in relationships take responsibility they are not innocent. And this age but oh she is a child. Please was she a child when she was sending nudes was she a child while she was trying to get with him no so spear me that child stuff.. and don't think I'm upset with you for expressing your opinion I'm just upset period