Okay so i need opinions...so when my boyfriend and i started dating he introduced me to his one…
Okay so i need opinions...so when my boyfriend and i started dating he introduced me to his one female friend, right from the begining i didnt like her she just had a bad attitude about her, so when we left i asked him if there was ever anything with her he replied no, a month or so later i asked him again because i just had a gut feeling, he replied no, and i just recently asked him again because i can tell when theyre around each other. his reaponse again was no that they were just child hood best friends like family. i finally believed him....until yesterday when i had his phone....i went through the facebook messages between the two because again i had a gut feeling. The two had been talking/dating since 2009. they were on and off all of those years but the most recent time they started was 3 months before him and i got together. i feel like my trust has been broken and i barley know him. idk what to do.
Ingrid·
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I would confront him about it. I don't know if this seems right, but I've made my boyfriend stop talking to any female he has been associated been (ex, hooks up, etc).
Brittany·
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@ingridm89, i confronted him about it we actually had a huge fight over it, and i would make him stop but his best friend (whose the god father to our baby) and his gf are like best friends with this bitch so im kinda forced to deal with her.
Ingrid·
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What?? you do not have to deal with that. >_< So wrong on his part.
Brittany·
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@ingridm89, i cant make him stop talking to his best friend...i actually like his best friend she just unfourtantly hangs out with his best friend and girl friend:\
Bree 🌻·
@ingridm89 I've done the same. I see no reason why you'd still need to talk to an ex or past hook up... @mommy_too_be3.24.17 you have every right to tell him how you feel and if that means he should stop talking to his "best friend," whom of which he lied about, then so be it.
Brittany·
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@alana_sunshine, him and i have always gone through each others things we go off the philosophy that we have nothing to hide so whats the problem?
Brittany·
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@mommyillbe, his male best friend is going to be the god father to the baby, the problem is his girlfriend and this girl are best friends. so theres not a damn thing i can do about it
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@alana_sunshine, it doesnt matter i shouldnt have found anything anyway. if i didnt go through it i never would have known and sorry i dont like hiding shit or secrets, thats how relationships fall apart.