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Cassandra
Cassandra
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

I just want to sleep and be alone and feel as if I have no responsibilities. How do you know when…

I just want to sleep and be alone and feel as if I have no responsibilities.

How do you know when your pregnant if the feelings you feel are the hormones or actual feelings? I feel so distant from my husband. Not because he does anything but his presence sometimes just angers me and sex is out the window because I just don't want to anymore. Some days are worse than others, some days I'm pouring my heart out about how much I love him. I want to say hormones only because I'm just so confused all the time but it's scary to think these thoughts could be permanent.

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emily18234

Emily

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Yeah it sounds like hormones honestly given the swing between "I love you" and "I want to rip your dick off", however, the hormones don't stop after you give birth, they could get worse. Make sure you keep communication with him open and maybe even sit down with a counselor to talk?

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cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@emily18234, I was thinking of having a talk with him today.. I'm just afraid of him taking it the wrong way or feeling like I'm trying to break things off with him

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emily18234

Emily

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Nah I totally understand. I was the same way with my SO, still am sometimes. Guys are more understanding than we give them credit for honestly. I'm here if you ever need to talk or vent

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cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@emily18234, thank you. I just hope this feeling doesn't last long

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firsttimetarrina

Tarrina Valerie

Definitely sounds like hormones. I agree with @emily18234 my man has been very supportive and helpful emotionally which is NOT something he normally is. They start to understand when we tell them what we're going through. When we're pregnant, they want to do things right. Talk to him and tell him what you need from him. He'll get it right. ❤️

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cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@firsttimetarrina, he's usually really good at understanding. I just don't wanna sound sappy with the whole "it's not you it's me" deal, you know? Maybe we just need a night to ourselves, a night out to talk.

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firsttimetarrina

Tarrina Valerie

Girl you better talk to your man and keep it real.. Lol. It's best for both of you. You're pregnant. Not sappy. If he's good at understanding then you have nothing to worry about. He's a blessing. Let him be a part of your pregnancy. Let him help you. Let him know how you feel.

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cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@firsttimetarrina, thanks for reassurance!! Idk why I get so scared, I guess it's just hormones lol! Being pregnant is fun and all but all this emotional stuff is hard to keep up with lol

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mrs.grooms

Jessie Grooms

Мама сына-младенца

there's a ppd group if you need to be added I can help :) were very helpful

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cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@mommyof2016, id appreciate that!!

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mrs.grooms

Jessie Grooms

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I messaged the admin :)

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