I don't get how people don't understand how us moms who just had a baby need sometime before we…

I don't get how people don't understand how us moms who just had a baby need sometime before we start having company over. Everyone keeps bothering me to come visit and i keep saying I need some time. Like my man and I wanna enjoy our new baby girl with our toddler alone for a few weeks. Only people who have been around her is her Grandma's, her aunt, her grandpa, and my best friend.