Shout out to this significant others out there putting forth the effort!

Shout out to this significant others out there putting forth the effort!

he has been sooo understanding and supportive. In the past week my belly has grown a TON and it's putting a lot of pressure on a nerve in my back. It hurts every time i take a step with my right leg. He has been so helpful by always giving me his arm to help me walk and constantly picking up things i drop so i don't have to bend over. And showering me with compliments lately.

See it's not constantly about me and the changes I'm going through emotionally and physically... him seeing me go through this has got to weigh on his heart too. Heck I went from pulling double shifts as a waitress several times a week to not being able to shave my own legs. I know it hurts his heart more than ever to see me hurt. We've fought so much. Most of it by me ending it with "you don't understand!" Or "you don't care."

He does care. It just took him longer to get it. It's not real for them until they start seeing the end result.

All I wanna say is HANG in there. WORK together. Be there for each other. Talk to him even when you don't think he is listening. Express yourself. Don't just expect him to know what it's like carrying his giant baby around inside you. In the end I bet this is so worth it. ❤️️