I nursed the baby earlier then asked my boyfriend to hold him so I could make him a bottle he ignored me or didn't hear me whatever so I put him in his bouncer make a bottle and grab my stuff to pump. When I come back in I said "Can you feed him so I can pump??" Keeping in mind that I've still been the one taking care of the baby even after he got off work except when my mom got him to nap earlier he didn't help me at all. He says "I thought you said you were going to feed him..." So I say "yeah nevermind I'll do it." I get the baby all ready and start feeding him and he's like "I'll feed him, let me do it." I snapped at him and said "It really sucks that I have to feel like a bitch when I ask you to help me." HE got offended that I would call myself that... 😒 men sometimes.
i wonder if he heard you in the first place... mine wants to help, he just doesn't realize i need it until i explicitly say, "Take the baby and feed him." And i have to repeat it a 100 times, especially if the TV is on.