Ugh! So before I had my son I was the perfect size. Well now I'm the totally opposite, in my view. I…
Ugh! So before I had my son I was the perfect size. Well now I'm the totally opposite, in my view. I had preeclampsia while pregnant til the point I was so swollen, I have yet to lose the weight. Anyways I have became very insecure of my image that I rarely want to shop for myself and I don't like to do different things in regards to sex like I used to. My husband tries to show me and express the love he has for me but I feel like that's only because he's my husband. He has expressed how I don't like to do many different things in the bedroom like I used to before I had my son and that he want me to be open to different things like I used to. I understand what he's saying because I know I have changed. I want to do all of the things I used to but I'm so insecure 😔
Paige Rue·
Мама сына-младенца
I know exactly how you feel!! I am the same way! I had preeclampsia also and for some reason I never lost weight still weigh the same as I did at the end of my pregnancy and I'm really depressed over my image
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@sharonpaige13, that's exactly how I am and it's like I was so swollen and some of it went down but I still weigh the same
>_<·
Think of it this way, your body did a WONDERFUL thing for you. It created another life! I feel insecure from the weight Ive gained so far but I put on lingerie to cover the parts I don't like. It makes me feel sexy even when I don't feel sexy naked.
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@twinpeanut, thank you so much for the advice! I don't regret going thru the change for my son but I just wish I could just get over the feeling of holding back. Then I had "friends" that would constantly remind me of my weight so I got rid of them!
>_<·
you're welcome. you did a beautiful thing and your husband and family love you! Don't worry about the negative things. Keep living your life and itll come off, esp.as you play with and chase baby!
Gaby·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
it takes time for your body to heal. my son whom I had 6 years ago. I was placed on bed rest at 4 months. Girl 5 months only moving from bed to bathroom and doc visits plus I had a 2 year old. was an absolute nightmare. I went from a size 7/8 to a size 16 I had my first breakdown at a ross in front of everybody bc I couldn't fit the clothes I had before the pregnancy. It was my first time ever in plus size and I just cried for like a month. It's hard I completely understand. But it's not impossible to lose the weight. can I promise you that you wont have a kanga pouch from the stretching. But with time your body will heal and you have a beautiful baby. It's gonna take some work some excersing some pinterest pins to help after birth weight come off and trust it will.
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@ga_bree_ela, thank you so much! My husband truly helps motivate me and I have learned that he is the only true friend I have!
Gaby·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@kylen_mommy, when you have a child that's the first thing you'll always notice. it's sad but sooo true and I am happy he is motivating you bc thats the best support you need right now. someone on your time at home trying to help you get back to where you feel comfortable. that let's you know that he truly loves you and supports you. you got this and he understands that this is hard for you let him keep motivating you and girl the sex it takes time to getnin the groove but once you erase all the neg in your mind you'll see your old self come out plus it's a workout.... lol
Tanya·
Мама подростка
your beautiful inside & out baby girl. Trust what your husband says I don't think he's telling you all those beautiful kind words because he's your husband. He means every word! 🙏🙌👐🤗
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@ga_bree_ela, thank you lol hopefully I can get back in the groove
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@tinyhints, thank you so much! He has been a big help
Tanya·
Мама подростка
he's your rock you lean on him
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
@tinyhints, you are so right! We got married young at 19 & 20! I thought I had real friends but I have learned that his my only true friend!
Tanya·
Мама подростка
yes sweetie as long as you have one another that's all that matters. He's your friend your lover husband and your baby's Father keep your head up☝an always remember your to blessed to be stressed. An what you are feeling an going through is the 😈 trying to bring u down stomp him out