I find it so sad that my son's father would say if my son turns out a certain way because he didn't…

🤔 who knows maybe you will meet someone get married and he will raise ur son as his own

Maybe , I just don't understand why my sons father has to be so negative about us not being together @cassidy561

@egates, They such fuckin idiots. ..lol

Do u know how many time iv blocked my babies father for say stupid shit like that😡

They definitely are it's annoying & very sad @cassidy561

when parents don't live together, kids call it "a broken home". It can have effect on kids coz it did on me. i grew up with both my parents but they weren't together and i grew up not understanding what a loving family is and I had so much mix feelings and trust issue with new people (step parents) coming in my life. But i see how u feel coz my bf try say "my kid won't be in a broken home" and frustrates me.

do what's best for you child. every situation isn't the same. sometimes growing up in a home with both parents that have a toxic relationship is bad to. staying together just for the kids ( yet your both miserable) isn't a good idea in my opinion. as long as y'all can co parent well it doesn't matter if y'all living together or not.

You shouldn't stay with someone because of a baby period. Your baby will be loved just as much and I didn't have my parents in the same house ever and didn't know my dad for a good half of it, but at the end of the day I don't blame my mom or dad for anything and neither will your LO

I grew up with both of my parents but they had a very violent relationship with a lot of arguing and fighting & they both knew they weren't happy yet they stayed together for 18 years it affected me & made me feel like I would never want to be in a relationship where I wasn't happy @mommyofavaka

Exactly my point that's how my parents relationship was and they stayed together for 18 years and it wasn't good on me , I would never stay in a relationship where im not happy just to pretend to give my child a happy home because it's a front and eventually my child would see the truth @for_the_love_of_them123456

@egates, i know what you mean. My mom stayed with my dad for 20 yrs just cause he was the father of her two kids (me and my brother). So when she couldn't handle it anymore she left. And I'm happy she did cause now she can find her true love. I just feel like you know what makes you happy and if he doesn't then find somebody that make you and you kid(s) happy. I wish you luck ❤

That's exactly how I feel if I'm not happy I shouldn't be forced to stay in a situation & I know my child won't when he gets older if he has questions and I explain it too him he will understand why his mom didn't just put up with a relationship and stay when she wasn't happy @belly1996

Thank you so much , it definitely took a lot for me to walk away and not stay in the relationship just because I'm having a child by this guy my parents relationship was the same way , so I can relate a lot when they got separated it made me so happy because I didn't have to constantly sleep with one eye open trying to make sure my parents weren't killing each other they're relationship definitely taught me to not let a man disrespect me or treat me any kind of way just because of "love" I definitely don't believe in settling because I know my worth @mommy1987

That's good im very happy for your mom , & I definitely do and as of right now I know what makes me happy & what doesn't & someone that's going to constantly try to make me feel bad about how I feel isn't it , maybe one day I will find someone who will make me & my child happy but thank you ❤️ @mommyofavaka