I love my mother in law and I don't want to speak bad about her at all but lately she's been getting on mine and my…

I love my mother in law and I don't want to speak bad about her at all but lately she's been getting on mine and my boyfriends nerves. She swears she entitled to tell us how we should be raising and disciplining our child. Then she spoils the heck out of her by giving her a what ewe she wants including a whole bunch of junk food. My boyfriend has spoken to her about all this many times and they fight over all this each time and she still doesn't get it. Now my boyfriend wants to minimize the time she gets to spend with our daughter and I don't want that I just want my mother in law to respect our ways.