Okay tmi but should I burn down there after having sex? it was so bad I had to stop. but now it hurts to pee

no it shouldn't burn. if it hurts when peeing you might have a uti. go get it checked out honey

even bein a little rough cause it's swelled at the bottom like right before you enter

It's the friction. Use some lube next time. A lot. I have that problem now. My body doesn't self lube enough even when I'm in the mood. You'll notice it go away after a little while. But next time try lube

its normal and like ^ she said use lube it will help.

This is not normal at all.... The exact thing happened to me and went to the dr and came to find out I had a bad yeast infection! Burning is never normal. And I swelled right in the same spot you are describing!

yeast infection