Slightly annoyed lol, I see some of you who are 9 months pregnant (such as myself) and your sweet…
Slightly annoyed lol, I see some of you who are 9 months pregnant (such as myself) and your sweet husbands/bfs/whatever are like "oh sweetie it's okay if you don't get anything done around the house" (haha I've seen a few posts anyways). And here my fiancé is "can you do the laundry, dishes, make my chicken, vacuum the house?"
😐 annoyed at him, jealous of you all who have a more understanding SO.
Lol da fuq? Don't get me wrong I got some stuff done because I'm not totally useless and I planned on doing some of those anyways but I can barely fucking breathe walking up the damn stairs haha give me a break
Rene' Lakhlifi·
Мама сына (2 года)
take it easy momma, your body knows it's limits. it's protecting you and baby.
Cristal Cortez·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm feeling you right now too just had a bipolar moment cuz I can't even get him to feed the dogs
Rene' Lakhlifi·
Мама сына (2 года)
maybe try talking to him from a place of love and understanding, rather a place of blame and complaints? 😞 my hubby and I have been practicing this ourselves, and we've found a better balance in our relationship. I hope I didn't offend, or get too personal.
Krista·
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Lol we never fight and we're already fine. Just gets on my nerves that I'm the only one to do anything around the house. He is working a ton, so I may have been a bitch to him earlier on my part but I'm trying to do as much as I can to help out still. He's lucky I'm able to do as much as I can still cause most of others at almost 37 weeks can't, I mean the only difficult thing for me to do is putting socks on haha, that's gotten a little harder but he was just saying that the other day how surprised he is that I can still do everything I can. I just don't like being taken advantage of, I'm nice but don't push it lol @rene_74
AMP·
Oh girl, I've been milking it since being prego. I've barely cooked, I do clean (but not as much) but I also ask him to do certain things. maybe ask for his help, like could you clean the xyz this week please? or another "trick" I use is, "I'm going to clean the sinks and do the dishes, could you do the toilets and tub?" so that way you get stuff done as a team. I started asking him like this when I felt overwhelmed or taken advantage of. he works probably more than twice of what I do, but he doesn't mind being asked to do something. good luck girl! 😘
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
Oh helll no. Bye Felicia
Krista·
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@futuremrspost, Yeah I've definitely been slacking since getting further along here and part of it is because I'm like "well in __ days, I'm never going to get to relax so might as well get it all in now" lol, laziness at its finest but I'm also not a live in maid. Him and I will definitely have to work out something because I literally do all the cleaning, he'll vacuum but I don't think he knows what dusting is lol. He'll have 6 weeks off with me once baby is here and said he'd help me as much as possible so... going to crack that whip haha!
Krista·
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@emkasting, lmao, he knew I was super pissed off. The other day he was like "I love that you never get mad", I go "yeah you don't want to see me mad" bahah.