my family was the same way with my ex fiance. except my ex was abusive and terrible to me and they couldn't stand to see him hurt me so I can understand certain circumstances where a significant other not being welcome is ok... (not saying that's your situation at all though)

Shit. I guess neither can you

But she clearly doesn't care about breaking ties with you. Because that's very disrespectful from her ... and it's obvious you dislike it. U get me? I care about my family bonds with those who care about it too. The rest of them can kill themselves . I have a cousin that comments on every picture of my sister and my other cousins (that have some coins in the bank) ... and I had a baby and she didn't even say congrats to me. That kind of family I block it and I don't care about them , just because they don't care neither .

Yeah Thts exactly how I am when it comes down to him. Bt we just became really close and we're trying to build a relationship (her mom and mine grew up together) and I don't wanna break any ties with her . I'm definitely gonna investigate ! Becuz Thts ridiculous I wouldn't tell yu yu couldn't bring your bf or whoever . I'm trying to be respectful becuz this is her baby gender reveal bt Tht threw me off 😒 @astridoll

Excuse me ? You don't like my husband? Then you don't like me . You don't wanna see him? Then you won't see me neither. Period . That's ridiculous tho. But I think she could have a bigger reason to do that ........ I would investigate like FBI or ask her directly . It's normal that you don't show up where your fiancé is not welcomed

i would say dnt take it personal. just go. family is deep and they can neva take him away from u. u neva know whts the reason y. it might b a reason so find out wen u go dnt make a scene because its not the time or place but as its over pull whoever aside and find out. @arianaj

Girl it's fineee lol , it's 4am I'm just happy Sumone responded 😂 . See this is really an issue , cuz your absolutely right ! I'm just strting to build a relationship with my older cousin as we found out we were pregnant 5 weeks apart (we didn't grow up together bt our mothers did) & I just didn't wanna break ties with her over this , I take my fiancé verryy personally . Tbh my fiancé doesn't care for coming bt he's definitely going to question why I don't want him to come and I'm not gonna lie . This is just ridiculous 😒😒😒😒

@arianaj, I definitely would not go, if he cannot go. Regardless of what the scenario she is gathering together.. thats your fiancé, and if he is not accepted.. then you aren't either. My family was like this at first, until I gave them the cold shoulder . My Fiancé is 30 & I'm 19. Yeah, an 11 yr gap, but he takes very good care of me, & our child.. and has respected me from the get go. & Soon, after I stopped coming around , & they seen how well off I was and how productive I have been with my life, as far as, keeping our house clean, taking care of a newborn, and in college.. they started to respect him & accept it that we didnt see age when we met, & it surely wasnt intended. (Sorry, i just went on a rampage.) BUT DO NOT ACCEPT THE BS GIRL. Stay strong for your relationship, family will always be around.. whether they like it or not. Don't jeopardize your relation for some silly family feud . 😉

@chasingjaedyn_est0916, okay cuz I thought i was crazy 😒. see normally I would put up a big fight , But it's my older cousins gender reveal and idk Wht type of scenario she's making up in her for him not to be invited . But Tht makes me upset I almost don't even wanna come 😒😒

Unacceptable.. I wouldn't be attending.