so I decided to help out a friend with baby sitting her daughter for free. she drops her daughter off around 230 and her husband gets off at 4 and picked her IP by 4, 430 the latest. so it was maybe just a little over an hour a day only 4 days a week so no big deal. Since then her husband (who also works with my boyfriend) starts coming later and later. my boyfriend works 1hr away at a different job and he works in town but some how he still makes it here after my boyfriend. yesterday he said that he'd be a couple minutes late to pick her up and didn't show up till 745! The day before that my dad had seen him at a pawn shop looking at movies and random stuff. I don't know how to talk to them about the time frames...I don't like causing conflict or arguments between couples. I love their daughter like my own so I wouldn't want to lose the opportunity to watch her. what would you do? how would you confront the situation in a friendly manner?