Is it normal to feel like my relationship with my fiancé is falling apart. ?he sometimes helps with the baby but he's…

Very normal. It's hard to juggle a relationship and a baby. At least he's tried. Don't be afraid to ask him for help. Dishes, folding laundry, dinner. He can do more. Just because he works doesn't mean he's excused from house work

@housfullofgrls, I do but he does everything half assed. So it's just better if I do it then it gets done the correct way.

Half assed is better than not at all

Dylan wakes up early everyday at like 430 so I know he's tired when he gets home. I don't expect him to help during the week but on the weekend it would be appreciated. But he doesn't help at all. I get no and I get really bad mood swings because of it. Our relationship is going down hill but still nothing changes. I feel you

@housfullofgrls I guess. It's hard when I tell him how to do something correctly and it's in 1 ear out the other

@marinarose, that's me !just on the weekends I would like help. But I guess him relaxing is more important.like he's driving my car and he forgot to put the tags on it even though I had reminded him twice so I went and did it.

At least it's just tags. Rent is late, all the bills are late, the jeep isn't registered nor does it have insurance. Then his parents bitch at me for it. Like dude he doesn't listen stop nagging at me I'm already having a hard enough time. And when I want help I just let Davyn cry till he wakes up and he just stares at me with an "are you gonna get that look" 🙄

@marinarose, oh wow. That's bull. Rudy was that way. Everything would be late. Until I nearly nagged him to death and now everything is on time.

@mommyofsoontob3, that's what I did. He now can control finances himself but I had to have him give me the check and make sure everything was paid.

@mommyofsoontob3, that was the plan but it didn't happen. He has his half of the bills saved. But his dad lives with us too so we have to wait on him to give us his half. But my boyfriend never asks for it until it's late

@mommyofsoontob3, I wanna try and find a family expectations. I don't feel like any of this is the baby's fault. It's his unfortunately, I've always put him first and sometimes it feels like he puts me last.

@mommyofsoontob3, I wish it was that easy. He flips out over the bills and refuses to pay his half sometimes. He will pay his half of rent but that's about it. He's bipolar and flips out about everything

@mommyofsoontob3, he says he will only pay a 3rd because I need to pay something. Even though I'm not working and I'm cleaning up after him everyday. His family likes to try to get me to say bad things about one another then flip it to make it worse and tell the other one. So I stay in my room. It's so emotionally draining living with him